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I generally am open to the idea, but starting your defense with "actually" says your judgement is perfect & all that counts. I think more humility & willingness
by rektide 3y ago
I generally am open to the idea, but starting your defense with "actually" says your judgement is perfect & all that counts. I think more humility & willingness to say we don't know yet is essential. We don't know yet. We are trying & that's good. But let's not pretend this is the final last & only answer.
- lisasays 3y agoActually, it's just a fill word. That doesn't actually have the passive-aggressive import that some people like to write attention-grabbing articles (and to conduct seminars on "violence-free communication" no less) claiming that it has. But I agree that the topic is open to further interpretation and exploration.
- rektide 3y agoActually, that's not true. Actually actually says, "this is true."