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I agree much of it is insufferable: > One day you’ll find yourself saying “like” a lot. Please stop. If this generation can’t quit the habit, we’ll eventually
by wilg 3y ago
I agree much of it is insufferable:
> One day you’ll find yourself saying “like” a lot. Please stop. If this generation can’t quit the habit, we’ll eventually have an American president who speaks that way too.
People who think this way really grind my gears. I especially enjoy that, like, there's no explanation for why this would be a problem.
- sasaf5 3y agoAs someone who gets deeply irritated by filler words, I will try to tell you why it makes me feel like that. People who abuse filler words do so to keep the line busy because they fear being interrupted. Their speech is a continuous and anxious stream of poorly formed sentences without regard for the listener. Trying to listen to them feels like taking a ride with a brake-happy, inexperienced driver.
- Timwi 3y agoYou seem to have successfully identified the core issue, and it's not the filler words.
- toadi 3y agoIsn't that bit the same as when people use the word literally but not meaning literally? It grinds your gears but who am I to tell people how to speak?
- siwatanejo 3y agoAnd what about people filming vertical videos? There's like, literally millions of things you could mention that are cringy to others.
- wilg 3y agopeople hold the phone vertically when shooting video because that’s the way the video looks when they watch it on their phone. This is the most correct way to prepare a video for casual viewing.
- kortilla 3y agoNo they don’t. People hold the phone vertically when shooting video because it’s the easiest ergonomically to do one-handed.
- bmacho 3y agoPeople hold the phone vertically when they shoot videos of other people, and other people happen to be vertical. They can see each other (aspect ratio)^2 times larger: more pixel, and bigger on screen.
- toadi 3y agoMy GF watches youtube vertically... only using 1/3rd of the screen.
- rchaud 3y agoSo do I. It's a little annoying, but 99 pct of the time I'm holding the phone vertically, and rotating the screen is usually not worth it.
- spacetime_cmplx 3y agoIf 't be true thou art so 'gainst w'rds changing meaning, then wherefore aren't thee speaking liketh this
- behnamoh 3y agoI'm like, why would any, like, president, be like, using this Los Angeles lingo in like formal gatherings.
- ryandrake 3y agoPeople like who like think like this like way like really like grind like my like gears. Like I like especially like enjoy like that, like, there's like no like explanation like for like why like this like would like be like a like problem. You really see nothing wrong with this?
- wilg 3y agoOld man yells at cloud. “Back in my day likes were called ums and ahs!”
- Panzer04 3y agoAnd we teach people to avoid those too. Weasel words and delaying terms are common regardless, and usually not desirable.
- akvadrako 3y agoThey may not be desirable but they are probably useful. Many years ago I saw a study that ums and ahs helped listeners understand better because it indicated the next phrase was important.
- msla 3y agoIf you think you're going to get rid of filler, you're in for a big disappointment: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Filler_(linguistics) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Filler_(linguistics) > In linguistics, a filler, filled pause, hesitation marker or planner is a sound or word that participants in a conversation use to signal that they are pausing to think but are not finished speaking. [snip] > Every conversation involves turn-taking, which means that whenever someone wants to speak and hears a pause, they do so. Pauses are commonly used to indicate that someone's turn has ended, which can create confusion when someone has not finished a thought but has paused to form a thought; in order to prevent this confusion, they will use a filler word such as um, er, or uh.[1][3] The use of a filler word indicates that the other person should continue listening instead of speaking.[4] More to the point: Every language has them. Every language has always had them. Journalists are trained to edit them out of "verbatim" conversational speech unless they want the person they're quoting to come off like an imbecile, but longstanding journalistic convention doesn't mean filler is in any way recent. We don't always speak without filler any more than we always speak in iambic pentameter.
- rchaud 3y ago> Please stop. If this generation can’t quit the habit, we’ll eventually have an American president who speaks that way too. What an utterly superficial way of looking at the presidency. GW Bush and Trump didn't talk like valley girls, but still said plenty of nonsensical garbage that lost them respect at home and abroad.