That's a terrible analogy. A better one would be that my wife and I ran up a huge pile of debts and now even though I want to pay it she went off her meds and

That's a terrible analogy. A better one would be that my wife and I ran up a huge pile of debts and now even though I want to pay it she went off her meds and has changed the password on our banking app. This is putting us at risk of being foreclosed on.