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But it's precisely that handwaviness that should make you not have to do research at all and smell a rat, as ultimately rate of interest and risk come hand in h

But it's precisely that handwaviness that should make you not have to do research at all and smell a rat, as ultimately rate of interest and risk come hand in hand. It doesn't matter whether the instrument is based on crypto, real estate or pokemon cards. If someone is offering a high interest, very liquid investment with returns so high that you are better off taking a larger mortgage, and putting the extra money into the investment, there has to be a hidden risk component: Otherwise, why would anyone issue mortgages, instead of investing in this very liquid instrument? It's too good to be true. It's not unlike the people that spent money ordering cryptominers from butterfly labs: The expected return from buying them (pay the whole thing off in two months, and afterwards it's all profit!") just doesn't line up, regardless of the justification. Extraordinary returns exist, but they either require that you discover them yourself, or have to carry significant risks. So when someone is selling the opportunity to you, and you are told there's no risk, you have to know you are being lied to, no due diligence necessary.

tombert 3y ago
I mean, I know. I lost my money. I wrote the post explaining that I feel stupid about it.
- bloppe 3y ago
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  - gumby 3y ago
    The gender of posters is rarely clear so “nerdsplaining” is the appropriate term
  - conradfr 3y ago
    What does that have to do with anything?
- Xeoncross 3y ago
  Sorry, we all make mistakes. Some people do dumb things with money, others with relationships, some with their health, and others with their time. It's hard to be successful at everything. Ask the friends of anyone here, they'll point at the things someone did right and the things they messed up to get their. Glad you're doing better.
- sally_glance 3y ago
  Just wanted to chime in and say thank you for sharing. If everyone was too ashamed of sharing past stupidness we would have no guideposts at all for gauging our own inevitable stupidness.
  - tombert 3y ago
    Yeah, honestly I don't particularly care what the people on HN think of me [1], but I think it's important to come out to say that even relatively educated people like me can be duped. I might very well be an idiot, but at least nominally I'm in the "educated" demographic: I have a yuppie job, a college degree, some graduate education, and until Gemini Earn was generally considered somewhat financially responsible. I don't gamble, I don't drink, I don't go out to eat very often, any large purchases are planned out for weeks (if not months), and I try and put at least 30% of my paycheck into some form long-term savings (either something low risk/long-term like an index fund or something super-low-risk like a treasury bill). I feel like if something like this can happen to me, it can happen to nearly anyone else. If anyone was thinking about "investing" in cryptocurrencies, just try and remember that it's largely-unregulated funny money, and you're probably not going to save the world while simultaneously getting rich from it. I'm hoping that other people can learn from my mistake the age-old adage: if it looks too good to true, it probably is. [1] (well, most of the time, admittedly I'm subject to vanity like anyone else)
    - lightfield1002 3y ago
      > if it looks too good to true, it probably is. And everybody told you, all the time, and you chose not to listen. That's your choice, no worries. But threatening physical harm to the con man you fell for is just not ok.
      - tombert 3y ago
        Sorry, “everybody” told me? “All the time”? That’s news to me; lots of people seem to get suckered by Gemini Earn. Yes there were a few comments we can look back at in hindsight, but its not like anyone in my friend group told me anything. Also, it’s hardly a “threat”; it was a bit of hyperbole, which nearly everyone here seems to understand (including you, I think), but let’s just pretend my statement was 100% sincere; what danger am I causing exactly? I very clearly say that I do not want to meet him. What kind of cartoon-like circumstances are going to lead to me meeting this guy if I am not seeking him out?
- diversionfactor 3y ago
  Don’t sweat it. I’ve invested multiple hundreds of thousands in venture-backed startups over the past two decades, and lost all of it. None of the startups was successful. These were all audited venture-backed with experienced founders many of whom I’ve known personally in the Austin tech scene. Losing money is the rule in any kind of investing beyond the prevailing real interest rate. It’s all speculation. By the sound of it your diversification is paying off. Actually you’re quite smart in that regard, you didn’t put it all into startups like me.
- didip 3y ago
  It's ok. Don't worry. I lost $250k during Covid because of similar lack of due diligence. I made most of them back YOLO-ing TQQQ, but like you, I was having cold sweats for several nights. Thankfully, there is so much money in tech industry that you can still recover from mistakes like this.
- Narkov 3y ago
  Thanks for sharing. You've paid a significant price for a very tough life lesson. It takes guts to be so open about it. Kudos.
JeremyNT 3y ago
OK, now you're moving from the realm of genuine curiosity and into the realm of victim blaming. Before the collapse, FTX and crypto had a veneer of respectability. They had ads everywhere and the mainstream press treated them like legitimate financial investments. The failure here isn't of the individuals who get suckered with crypto bullshit, it's a failure in our ability to regulate and tamp down that kind of crap. Shame on the press, government institutions, and of course tech sector VCs, for either shilling for, investing in, or looking the other way while these frauds were taking people to the cleaners.
- graeme 3y ago
  I talked to a lot of people at the time. You could say things like: * There is no free money. Why would there be free money? * It isn't FDIC insured. Look, it is a lie * It has ponzi economics, etc And it would get hand waved away. Agree that authorities dropped the ball, but the way a good con works is the mark wants to get conned, they want to believe there is something too good to be true. This is not aimed at OP, who opened up, admonished themself, etc.
  - SoftTalker 3y ago
    Yes, it often boils down to recognizing that "this person is telling me what I want to hear" because we're very vulnerable to that. The world is full of liars, something one learns as one gets older.
    - krainboltgreene 3y ago
      > Yes, it often boils down to recognizing that "this person is telling me what I want to hear" because we're very vulnerable to that. This also explains all the hype and starry eyes for LLMs.
    - lightfield1002 3y ago
      And yet the top comment here starts with: > I sincerely hope that I never meet Sam Bankman Fried, because if I did I do not know what I would do but it certainly wouldn't be legal. Why is this statement not condemned? Of course it's terrible that SBF was a fraud. But insinuating that physical harm is justified is just not ok. They were the naïve ones who bought into the BS, waived away all the warning voices, and now they are threating violence? Not ok.
spacemadness 3y ago
They know this. Why are you trying to make them feel worse? I really don’t like the culture around finance issues where everyone is treated like an irredeemable fool.
- prepend 3y ago
  It’s better to treat people like the redeemable fools we are.
  - __loam 3y ago
    Sure, but fraud is illegal lol. They're the victim of criminal activity at their expense.
    - prepend 3y ago
      That’s the redeemable fool part. I was a fool to fall for this obvious fraud. I am redeemed by now being less of a fool. But it doesn’t change the fact that I was once a fool.

tombert 3y ago

I mean, I know. I lost my money. I wrote the post explaining that I feel stupid about it.

bloppe 3y ago
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- gumby 3y ago
  The gender of posters is rarely clear so “nerdsplaining” is the appropriate term
- conradfr 3y ago
  What does that have to do with anything?
Xeoncross 3y ago
Sorry, we all make mistakes. Some people do dumb things with money, others with relationships, some with their health, and others with their time. It's hard to be successful at everything. Ask the friends of anyone here, they'll point at the things someone did right and the things they messed up to get their. Glad you're doing better.
sally_glance 3y ago
Just wanted to chime in and say thank you for sharing. If everyone was too ashamed of sharing past stupidness we would have no guideposts at all for gauging our own inevitable stupidness.
- tombert 3y ago
  Yeah, honestly I don't particularly care what the people on HN think of me [1], but I think it's important to come out to say that even relatively educated people like me can be duped. I might very well be an idiot, but at least nominally I'm in the "educated" demographic: I have a yuppie job, a college degree, some graduate education, and until Gemini Earn was generally considered somewhat financially responsible. I don't gamble, I don't drink, I don't go out to eat very often, any large purchases are planned out for weeks (if not months), and I try and put at least 30% of my paycheck into some form long-term savings (either something low risk/long-term like an index fund or something super-low-risk like a treasury bill). I feel like if something like this can happen to me, it can happen to nearly anyone else. If anyone was thinking about "investing" in cryptocurrencies, just try and remember that it's largely-unregulated funny money, and you're probably not going to save the world while simultaneously getting rich from it. I'm hoping that other people can learn from my mistake the age-old adage: if it looks too good to true, it probably is. [1] (well, most of the time, admittedly I'm subject to vanity like anyone else)
  - lightfield1002 3y ago
    > if it looks too good to true, it probably is. And everybody told you, all the time, and you chose not to listen. That's your choice, no worries. But threatening physical harm to the con man you fell for is just not ok.
    - tombert 3y ago
      Sorry, “everybody” told me? “All the time”? That’s news to me; lots of people seem to get suckered by Gemini Earn. Yes there were a few comments we can look back at in hindsight, but its not like anyone in my friend group told me anything. Also, it’s hardly a “threat”; it was a bit of hyperbole, which nearly everyone here seems to understand (including you, I think), but let’s just pretend my statement was 100% sincere; what danger am I causing exactly? I very clearly say that I do not want to meet him. What kind of cartoon-like circumstances are going to lead to me meeting this guy if I am not seeking him out?
diversionfactor 3y ago
Don’t sweat it. I’ve invested multiple hundreds of thousands in venture-backed startups over the past two decades, and lost all of it. None of the startups was successful. These were all audited venture-backed with experienced founders many of whom I’ve known personally in the Austin tech scene. Losing money is the rule in any kind of investing beyond the prevailing real interest rate. It’s all speculation. By the sound of it your diversification is paying off. Actually you’re quite smart in that regard, you didn’t put it all into startups like me.
didip 3y ago
It's ok. Don't worry. I lost $250k during Covid because of similar lack of due diligence. I made most of them back YOLO-ing TQQQ, but like you, I was having cold sweats for several nights. Thankfully, there is so much money in tech industry that you can still recover from mistakes like this.
Narkov 3y ago
Thanks for sharing. You've paid a significant price for a very tough life lesson. It takes guts to be so open about it. Kudos.

JeremyNT 3y ago

OK, now you're moving from the realm of genuine curiosity and into the realm of victim blaming. Before the collapse, FTX and crypto had a veneer of respectability. They had ads everywhere and the mainstream press treated them like legitimate financial investments. The failure here isn't of the individuals who get suckered with crypto bullshit, it's a failure in our ability to regulate and tamp down that kind of crap. Shame on the press, government institutions, and of course tech sector VCs, for either shilling for, investing in, or looking the other way while these frauds were taking people to the cleaners.

graeme 3y ago
I talked to a lot of people at the time. You could say things like: * There is no free money. Why would there be free money? * It isn't FDIC insured. Look, it is a lie * It has ponzi economics, etc And it would get hand waved away. Agree that authorities dropped the ball, but the way a good con works is the mark wants to get conned, they want to believe there is something too good to be true. This is not aimed at OP, who opened up, admonished themself, etc.
- SoftTalker 3y ago
  Yes, it often boils down to recognizing that "this person is telling me what I want to hear" because we're very vulnerable to that. The world is full of liars, something one learns as one gets older.
  - krainboltgreene 3y ago
    > Yes, it often boils down to recognizing that "this person is telling me what I want to hear" because we're very vulnerable to that. This also explains all the hype and starry eyes for LLMs.
  - lightfield1002 3y ago
    And yet the top comment here starts with: > I sincerely hope that I never meet Sam Bankman Fried, because if I did I do not know what I would do but it certainly wouldn't be legal. Why is this statement not condemned? Of course it's terrible that SBF was a fraud. But insinuating that physical harm is justified is just not ok. They were the naïve ones who bought into the BS, waived away all the warning voices, and now they are threating violence? Not ok.

spacemadness 3y ago

They know this. Why are you trying to make them feel worse? I really don’t like the culture around finance issues where everyone is treated like an irredeemable fool.

prepend 3y ago
It’s better to treat people like the redeemable fools we are.
- __loam 3y ago
  Sure, but fraud is illegal lol. They're the victim of criminal activity at their expense.
  - prepend 3y ago
    That’s the redeemable fool part. I was a fool to fall for this obvious fraud. I am redeemed by now being less of a fool. But it doesn’t change the fact that I was once a fool.