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> Are you really going to tell me theres nothing wrong with viewing any of those as a kid? Well you really are providing 0 actual argument of why not. If we t

> Are you really going to tell me theres nothing wrong with viewing any of those as a kid? Well you really are providing 0 actual argument of why not. If we take your examples 1 by 1, first you keep quoting BDSM as extreme but for milions of people it is not extreme (even depicted in mainstream movies like 50 shades). Pain can lead to pleasure in sex, and a lot of people (guys and girls) get more horny when dominated in bed in a safe and trusting environment. I don't see what is so hard or bad to explain / show it to teenagers. On the other hand not speaking about any of it or marking it as taboo can lead to situations where uneducated parties get massively abused in bed by bad people or simply equally uneducated people (how many times the drunk + "oh I discovered last week my girl likes domination" combo has led to something on the rape scale ?). As for scat and bestiality honestly if I take my personal experience i watched 10 seconds of 2 girls 1 cup when I was 16, almost threw up on the computer and then decided that was not my thing and never saw another video despite consuming a lot of port. Same for bestiality.. I'm repulsed by it but not traumatized by it. Im not advocating to put kids in front of porn (and like i said in another comment i'm fine with the status quo of the rule of "not under 18" while not being really enforced). I'm only saying that instead of focusing on fobidding it, which will never work on the first place, we should try to fill the massive gap there (still) is in the mind of many people and many families on how we introduce kids to a form of sexual education that will make them safe later. Because THAT is a currently shit show and most kids learn about it in a very random fashion.

doublerabbit 3y ago
I'm not saying forbidding it either. I'm saying that it being available for younger audiences is not safe at all. BDSM is an extreme on a spectrum. Tie ups, sure vanilla enough but BDSM does refer all the way down to Vomit, Scat. And while you may of be repulsed by such acts. I was not. Porn ruined my younger years, up until the age of 28. Where I took drugs and discovered what I really came from. When I had that mental breakdown and discovered it was in due part down to the pornography I watched. So when I say porn can be bad, im talking from personal experience. Me. Because the stuff I saw at 13, really fucked up my life good.
- davidguetta 3y ago
  Eh well if that's from your own story I guess you are making a valid case. What did you mean exactly by "Where I took drugs and discovered what I really came from" (if that's not too much to ask) ?
  - doublerabbit 3y ago
    I was in a bad space. Couldn't navigated where what I was doing. I was living alone. Looking at porn, wanted sex. Rock bottom, I had been fired from my job. Read up on a drug called 2c-e, overdosed by accident and which for six months entered psychosis. Crashed cars, chased aliens. Ended up in Jail for graffiti. Threw everything i owned. During the trip I was smacked hard. Like "escaping Disney land". I recoiled as I many stuff I had seeked pleasure from replayed, presented to me like Would you like this if this was you?" After seeing myself in the mirror, what I had become and who I was I've have been since working on changing myself. And for the past five years I've been challenging myself not look at porn. Sometimes I relapse and that's fine. I push hard snd try again, because I don't want to go back to where I was again. I'm not religious but it feels like I've been given another chance. I had unmonitored internet at 13, discovered porn at 15.. in the days of dialup. I've been passed around, groomed on the internet. Im 34, many years later, have a new job. Have my own apartment but still have an addiction to porn and still figuring myself but change doesn't happen over night. I fight it, but its hard and that I hope overtime it'll go away, but being on guard with especially how it is everywhere can be very triggering.

doublerabbit 3y ago

I'm not saying forbidding it either. I'm saying that it being available for younger audiences is not safe at all. BDSM is an extreme on a spectrum. Tie ups, sure vanilla enough but BDSM does refer all the way down to Vomit, Scat. And while you may of be repulsed by such acts. I was not. Porn ruined my younger years, up until the age of 28. Where I took drugs and discovered what I really came from. When I had that mental breakdown and discovered it was in due part down to the pornography I watched. So when I say porn can be bad, im talking from personal experience. Me. Because the stuff I saw at 13, really fucked up my life good.

davidguetta 3y ago
Eh well if that's from your own story I guess you are making a valid case. What did you mean exactly by "Where I took drugs and discovered what I really came from" (if that's not too much to ask) ?
- doublerabbit 3y ago
  I was in a bad space. Couldn't navigated where what I was doing. I was living alone. Looking at porn, wanted sex. Rock bottom, I had been fired from my job. Read up on a drug called 2c-e, overdosed by accident and which for six months entered psychosis. Crashed cars, chased aliens. Ended up in Jail for graffiti. Threw everything i owned. During the trip I was smacked hard. Like "escaping Disney land". I recoiled as I many stuff I had seeked pleasure from replayed, presented to me like Would you like this if this was you?" After seeing myself in the mirror, what I had become and who I was I've have been since working on changing myself. And for the past five years I've been challenging myself not look at porn. Sometimes I relapse and that's fine. I push hard snd try again, because I don't want to go back to where I was again. I'm not religious but it feels like I've been given another chance. I had unmonitored internet at 13, discovered porn at 15.. in the days of dialup. I've been passed around, groomed on the internet. Im 34, many years later, have a new job. Have my own apartment but still have an addiction to porn and still figuring myself but change doesn't happen over night. I fight it, but its hard and that I hope overtime it'll go away, but being on guard with especially how it is everywhere can be very triggering.