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> People live up to what you expect them to live up to. > If you expect a 6 year old to run the grocery store you own while you're away, then they will... One
by tivert 4y ago
> People live up to what you expect them to live up to.
> If you expect a 6 year old to run the grocery store you own while you're away, then they will...
One of the problems with our society is the tendency to take a kernel of truth and then oversimplify and take it so far that it just becomes a total falsehood. Like your example of the 6 year old and the grocery store, there are certainly stores/communities where that's reasonable, but also lot of stores/communities where it isn't. There's no general rule there.
> The infantilization of people has caused far greater harm than almost any other thing.
...and then there's the the hyperfocus that leads to a total lack of perspective.