I am in my mid 40s, so far none of them has worked well for me. I have tried to hold it in a lot of different ways but soon lose patience. I guess the food is t

I am in my mid 40s, so far none of them has worked well for me. I have tried to hold it in a lot of different ways but soon lose patience. I guess the food is too tempting for me than trying to figure out how to eat it :-) I always fall back to my backup -> fork. One day I'll master it.