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To recap: - "weirdness" means what others will think is weird - many options feel right Therefore, following the advice in the title leads to the selection o
by Octokiddie 3y ago
To recap:
- "weirdness" means what others will think is weird
- many options feel right
Therefore, following the advice in the title leads to the selection of the path that works personally, and which is most likely to be true to one's inner compass.
But I do wonder about the "feels right" part. The thing that feels right often only does so in hindsight. In the moment, it may feel very, very wrong.
This reminds me of something a speaker at a corporate "Innovation" symposium during a summer internship once said many years ago. There was talk after talk about how you have to "take risk" and "push the envelope" and "think outside the box."
Then this guy stands up and gives the best heuristic I've ever heard for identifying innovation in your actions. He said You'll know you're innovating because you'll feel deeply uncomfortable.
Nothing makes you stand out like actually innovating. Nothing makes you hated more than actually innovating. Nothing raises the stakes of what you're doing like actually innovating. And usually, nothing feels more wrong than actually innovating.
- elliotec 3y agoI don't think "feels right" and "uncomfortable" should be conflated, though. Many things feel right and uncomfortable at the same time. Think of break ups, moving locations or jobs, having children, and to your point, innovating.
- asdfman123 3y agoHow experimental you want to be is always a calculation involving how much safety margin you have and how high the stakes are. I think you should occasionally be more experimental in your creative work, but upend your life. And your 20s are for taking dumb risks. As a guy in my 30s I’m not going to drop everything and start an improv career. For one, I have a much better sense of what I’m good at (thanks to my 20s), and secondly, society is less generous about my screw ups.
- pallas_athena 3y ago"I don't know where I'm going from here, but I promise it won't bore you" - David Bowie