You are completely missing the multidimensional aspect of this. I really didn't want to anger you, and that's why I chose to write my comment carefully. Apparen

You are completely missing the multidimensional aspect of this. I really didn't want to anger you, and that's why I chose to write my comment carefully. Apparently not careful enough. But imagine this dismissal, but in every part of your life. Your dad got misdiagnosed for lupus? They don't even believe that we have can a headache. Just chill man and accept that some people can have more problems than you and some communities have more problems than straight white males. If the only thing that will stop you from dismissing this is hard core data, i think you should recalibrate your empathy circuits.