Having kids forces you to change. And if you don’t you’ll turn into something that is a negative reaction to that stimuli. It’s a massive step to do that change

Having kids forces you to change. And if you don’t you’ll turn into something that is a negative reaction to that stimuli. It’s a massive step to do that change, takes more courage than I have ever had to use anywhere in my life. I would have struggled to do that if I didn’t know what having a loving family meant (they gave me a North Star for love.)