This is a deep question. Our parents represent too much and too deep stuff in our brains. All our childhood, birth, absolute love.. i struggle to understand how

This is a deep question. Our parents represent too much and too deep stuff in our brains. All our childhood, birth, absolute love.. i struggle to understand how some people can easily cut their parents away. It feels like grief. Very hard problem to solve. Some therapists talk about adding distance as a compromise..