isn't the whole point of making this a decentralized protocol to be able to have nuanced access policies that you can trust are actually enforced? if I'm partic

isn't the whole point of making this a decentralized protocol to be able to have nuanced access policies that you can trust are actually enforced? if I'm participating in this protocol and someone requests my blocklist shouldn't that request get routed to my node which would respond according to my preferences which might be some choice like ignore them, answer them, lie to them, ask me, etc. depending if the request came from a contact, stranger, friend, foe, corporation, or whatever?