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Yeah I think getting married is what happens after you solve your loneliness problem, not before.

• SketchySeaBeast 3y ago
  If not marriage (though it should be) DEFINITELY before kids.
  • watwut 3y ago
    What? It is opposite. Having kids make you lonely especially when they are little. It is super isolating even if you are not the primary care provider.
    • SketchySeaBeast 3y ago
      That's why you need to solve your loneliness stuff out before you have kids.
  • HKH2 3y ago
    When you have kids you have no time to be lonely.
    • qgin 3y ago
      I think with caregiving of any type, there can be a split between loneliness and isolation. When I was the the caregiver for my mom when she was sick, I had no time to feel lonely, but after a few months the isolation of the situation really began to play tricks on my mind. It felt like my entire world shrank to just that house, everyone I ever knew became text bubbles on a phone, and the rest of my life that had happened up to that point felt like a dream that may or may not have actually happened.