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>> Then fix the outdated laws so people can enjoy those human connections without all the risky loss/gain baggage. In a country that celebrates sociopathy, man
by s5300 3y ago
>> Then fix the outdated laws so people can enjoy those human connections without all the risky loss/gain baggage.
In a country that celebrates sociopathy, manipulation of others, & psychopathy to such a high degree, I think the laws are perfectly fine as they protect exceptionally vulnerable people.
What sort of resources do you actually think there are for a spouse that is able to escape after having been isolated and abused for years, that oftentimes becomes responsible for not only their own well-being, but also childrens?
The answer is practically nothing aside from maybe your very basic necessities to sustain life.
I also think you’re really missing a major point but that’s a tangent I’m not going to go on.
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Revised “What sort of resources do you actually think there are for a spouse that’s been isolated and abused for years”
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“What sort of resources do you actually think there are for a spouse that is able to escape after having been isolated and abused for years”
- pengaru 3y agoThe lack of a social safety net in the US is not something antiquated marriage laws should be misused to insufficiently provide. We need better general solutions in this area, a lot of the separation-related problems would vanish. Job-separation and spouse-separation overlap substantially, and it's rather harmful as-is when spouses are incentivized to stay in abusive relationships if they wouldn't even receive significant support separated from an abusive deadbeat anyways. They become trapped.