> If even one parent reads my post and says "hey yeah, we don't have to conform to this arbitrary social norm I don't disagree with you there. I think that's a

> If even one parent reads my post and says "hey yeah, we don't have to conform to this arbitrary social norm I don't disagree with you there. I think that's a good goal. But why do that in a way that lays down another arbitrary social norm? That seems contradictory to your stated goal.