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More likely they have not had sex or been to a strip club. Whenever I see people argue that porn is just like sex they always turn out to be minors or young ad
by vxNsr 3y ago
More likely they have not had sex or been to a strip club.
Whenever I see people argue that porn is just like sex they always turn out to be minors or young adults who have only ever experienced porn and not intimate relationships.
- newswasboring 3y agoThat feels like a cruel assumption to make. But I think that says more about me than them.
- vxNsr 3y agoI don’t think it’s cruel. There’s nothing wrong with not having certain life experiences. I think it’s wrong to make assertions without knowing all the facts which is what these types of people do all the time. (See /r/relationships for many examples).
- filoleg 3y agoThat's a solid hypothesis. After being to strip clubs just twice in my life, and with both of those being very different experiences, I have to agree with you. Comparing it to porn (let alone an actual intimate relationship) is like comparing watching fast & furious movies to average driving experiences. While F&F movies are technically more wild, the real life experience of actual driving (even if it is technically waaay more mild than in the movies) is way more stressful/impactful/etc, to the point where even making the comparison feels ridiculous.