Who said people will decide by themselves? Each one of the people you mention will make a decision. How is not up to them? Anyway, again you are talking about

Who said people will decide by themselves? Each one of the people you mention will make a decision. How is not up to them? Anyway, again you are talking about hypothetical other people. What about you? What can you do? Stop pointing at other people. No more excuses. What can you personally do, and what will you do? Anything else is just an excuse.