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Well that would be the step after being able to be aroused with the visual of normal girls (which is in turn after the step of coming back being aroused by mode

Well that would be the step after being able to be aroused with the visual of normal girls (which is in turn after the step of coming back being aroused by models). Meaning that is much harder to do than going back to the state I was before, wouldn' it?

PaulHoule 4y ago
My take. In your case it is not a biological problem but rather a psychological problem. That's not a negative reflection on you, but it is not something most people want to hear. (Try telling a woman with fibromyalgia that their problems are even 1% psychological and see what you get and anything like "Look at how you've given up on life, of course your illness has caused you to become depressed" or "Look at how you've built your whole identity around being a sick person who can't be helped by anyone" or "Look at the pain that this guy suffered, he put off hip surgery for three years because he's a mutant who could be killed by general anesthesia but he kept driving a truck anyway" just doesn't get received.) My take is that you're conceptualizing the problem completely the wrong way and that the idea that you can reverse the condition along a gradient of visual stimulation is a product of that. There is more to it than visual stimulation and I think you have to find some other pathways of erotic response in yourself other than that. (e.g. there are many things that turn people on) It's hard to get help, particularly in 2023 where you can easily get 20 psychiatric referrals from your primary care physician and not find a single one who returns your phone calls and is taking new patients. It's a problem too for men that the field is terribly gender imbalanced https://www.zippia.com/psychiatric-nurse-jobs/demographics/ https://www.zippia.com/psychiatric-nurse-jobs/demographics/
- JumpinJack_Cash 4y ago
  I appreciate your insights . But it will never work for me, I need a substance to either eat , inhale or inject that will give me my libido back and I mean tomorrow not 5 years from now All these sort of long term solutions they end up being a waste of time and money

PaulHoule 4y ago

My take. In your case it is not a biological problem but rather a psychological problem. That's not a negative reflection on you, but it is not something most people want to hear. (Try telling a woman with fibromyalgia that their problems are even 1% psychological and see what you get and anything like "Look at how you've given up on life, of course your illness has caused you to become depressed" or "Look at how you've built your whole identity around being a sick person who can't be helped by anyone" or "Look at the pain that this guy suffered, he put off hip surgery for three years because he's a mutant who could be killed by general anesthesia but he kept driving a truck anyway" just doesn't get received.) My take is that you're conceptualizing the problem completely the wrong way and that the idea that you can reverse the condition along a gradient of visual stimulation is a product of that. There is more to it than visual stimulation and I think you have to find some other pathways of erotic response in yourself other than that. (e.g. there are many things that turn people on) It's hard to get help, particularly in 2023 where you can easily get 20 psychiatric referrals from your primary care physician and not find a single one who returns your phone calls and is taking new patients. It's a problem too for men that the field is terribly gender imbalanced https://www.zippia.com/psychiatric-nurse-jobs/demographics/ https://www.zippia.com/psychiatric-nurse-jobs/demographics/

JumpinJack_Cash 4y ago
I appreciate your insights . But it will never work for me, I need a substance to either eat , inhale or inject that will give me my libido back and I mean tomorrow not 5 years from now All these sort of long term solutions they end up being a waste of time and money