It seems to me like you hang around with a lot of people with similar opportunities and skills than you. Some of my friends work at Starbucks. Some of my family

It seems to me like you hang around with a lot of people with similar opportunities and skills than you. Some of my friends work at Starbucks. Some of my family is retired after 50 years in a factory making $40k/yr while raising 3 kids. They aren't just about to have a big break that puts us on even footing.