TIL I'm German. It's just so much less mental effort to be direct. I've also noticed an opposite is a problem, when you don't want something that someone else

TIL I'm German. It's just so much less mental effort to be direct. I've also noticed an opposite is a problem, when you don't want something that someone else made (say cookies) many people feel personally attacked that I don't want their cooking. Bitch I'm fat, I don't need more.