No one said gender is not real, you are asserting an argument I did not make. The notion you can be whatever you want - that is not real, that exists solely in

No one said gender is not real, you are asserting an argument I did not make. The notion you can be whatever you want - that is not real, that exists solely in your head. As an adult, you are free to do whatever you want - so long as it does not impact me and my life. Which is the problem isn't it... people forcefully impacting my life to please themselves. Forcing me to guess whatever pronouns you happen to what to use today is not a game I am going to play. If I demanded you refer to me as "King Alupis" in every one of your responses, you would probably not play that game either, despite the obvious happiness it would bring me.