I have no idea why phones don't have a "subtle then loud" default mode ? If I'm here, lighting the screen is enough. If I'm at the kitchen, ring, ok... I had t

I have no idea why phones don't have a "subtle then loud" default mode ? If I'm here, lighting the screen is enough. If I'm at the kitchen, ring, ok... I had this a decade ago on some modded Android and never again..