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To be clear, my comment was basically about being your own destructive force, less so about dealing with real perceived judgement. Unemployment can be inherent
by brailsafe 4y ago
To be clear, my comment was basically about being your own destructive force, less so about dealing with real perceived judgement.
Unemployment can be inherently isolating. If you surround yourself with status-seeking judgemental people, that's probably not a resilient social circle, but you shouldn't project your own negative perception of yourself and try to preemptively avoid rejection
- 29athrowaway 4y agoYou don't want to isolate yourself, that's is for sure. You also don't want to build relationships based solely on commiseration and draining others. But you need to have some form of support from your close circle of friends.
- brailsafe 4y agoAbsolutely. I do wonder though what circles people are traveling in these days where they'd they'd straight up be alienated purely for that purpose. I would think the more likely situation would be too much attention from an overbearing set of family members, depending on wealth class maybe and ethnic background