Referring to a male as 'he' isn't really in the same ballpark as throwing around racial slurs and so on. When applied to a male who calls himself a woman, it's

Referring to a male as 'he' isn't really in the same ballpark as throwing around racial slurs and so on. When applied to a male who calls himself a woman, it's merely a philosophical disagreement over whether said male can transform himself to female simply by decree.