0-5 Years: I depend on my parents 5-10 Years: I want to learn to be independent 11-20 Years: I want to be independent and free 20-40 Years: Oh crap I need a net

0-5 Years: I depend on my parents 5-10 Years: I want to learn to be independent 11-20 Years: I want to be independent and free 20-40 Years: Oh crap I need a network of friends and our parents to depend on to help with our kids 40+ Years: Oh crap I'm dependent on the love from my children who moved out