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> We Seek Solutions Within the Family Unit — Not Outside of It I think one problem is that in the recent 50-100 years (at least in the "west") we messed up wha
by dathinab 4y ago
> We Seek Solutions Within the Family Unit — Not Outside of It
I think one problem is that in the recent 50-100 years (at least in the "west") we messed up what family means.
In the past it was a non small support group, consisting of old and young people, people you are related to _and people you are not related to_ but which where "like family" for you and other family members.
But today the picture of family (as a support net) is often parents + children, maybe grant parent/grant children if they exist and that's it. I have seen enough situations where even the long term spouse of a child wasn't seen anymore as part of the family.
To make matters worse the internet is fully of people trying to spread hate and division, telling you to not accept at all anyone doing anything you don't agree with. But family isn't about accepting or finding it good what they do it's about being there to help them if they really need help, and in turn them being also there for you if needed.