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Weekly meetup? Goodness! All the marginally interesting meetups in my area are monthly or less. I specifically started a twice-monthly one myself because it was
by legerdemain 3y ago
Weekly meetup? Goodness! All the marginally interesting meetups in my area are monthly or less. I specifically started a twice-monthly one myself because it was so grim. (And no, I'm not very happy with my own meetup, either.)
Pretty much the only exception to the monthly cadence is hiking meetups, which in my area are dominated by retirees and midlife singles. I've tried them, I wouldn't keep trying.
- bonestamp2 3y agoFrom my experience, weekly is important for a couple of reasons: 1. That's the cadence that most people's life runs on. It's easier to schedule and remember something that happens every Wednesday, than every other Wednesday. 2. You actually start to feel like friends with people fairly quickly when you see them weekly. It feels like a good balance between space and closeness for strangers to start becoming friends. Starting a meetup is hard. If there's something relatively popular or trendy with the demographic of people you're hoping to make friends with, that might be something that will attract more people to your meetup quickly (AI, board games, investing, etc). Even if you only get 1-2 great people to become regulars, you can cancel the meetup and still meet with them every week.
- legerdemain 3y agoWe agree, you don't need to keep trying to convince me. I don't keep going to monthly events because I love the cadence. It's because the weekly event near me is "YC Startup Accountability Circle."
- bonestamp2 3y agoSorry, wasn't trying to preach, just wanted to share my thoughts and experiences incase it was helpful.