It's pretty hard to avoid putting individuals into any buckets whatsoever. How do I discover community on Nostr? I connected to a few relays but nothing seems t

It's pretty hard to avoid putting individuals into any buckets whatsoever. How do I discover community on Nostr? I connected to a few relays but nothing seems to be themed or organized around interests. On Akkoma I can make friends with people on my local server and sibling servers in our Bubble so it's very easy. Focusing on an independent identity at the expense of any kind of association is not particularly appealing to me. I'm not surprised it has tended to attract individualists in the crypto and libertarian crowds with those design priorities.