It's still rude. I'll accept the quick spouse/so update, the actual emergency or the "hey I might have to talk to x" but that's about it. If you're there to han

It's still rude. I'll accept the quick spouse/so update, the actual emergency or the "hey I might have to talk to x" but that's about it. If you're there to hang out and talk then do that. If you're just going to fuck with your phone the whole time you might as well not be there. I'll also accept phone use as a furtherance of the discussion, eg pulling up details, addresses, info, memes to share, etc, but that still all focuses back on us being there together, not you being there in name only.