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My past cat was like Bea, but in addition would lie across my shoulders while I worked at the desk, and chirp into my ear. I've never tried replacing him becaus

by prawn 4y ago

My past cat was like Bea, but in addition would lie across my shoulders while I worked at the desk, and chirp into my ear. I've never tried replacing him because I think the chances of getting another cat like that are low.

lynx23 4y ago
Same here. When he was still young, my cat used to sit on my shoulder while I was trying to get computer work done. He passed away almost 2 years ago. I haven't been able to get another cat yet because I am pretty convinced he was something really special and I am unlikely to be as lucky a second time.
erulabs 4y ago
Haha that’s so sweet. I’ll just say my cat is the opposite - earning her affection is really special; anyone she chooses to love has already loved her for months. When she finally cuddles up - ah! So just like people - you’re right - you’ll never find another cat like that - but you’ll find something especially different!
Stratoscope 4y ago
You had the privilege of living with a wonderful cat. But I have to disagree on the chances. You know cats. So I think the chance of you being with another wonderful cat is very good! A lot of it is how you raise them. https://photos.app.goo.gl/YW4twLBBvu6bMrKq7 https://photos.app.goo.gl/YW4twLBBvu6bMrKq7
- prawn 4y ago
  Yes, I agree with that about raising them, but I think that improves the chances and well short of guarantees it. One of our first cats was very unfriendly and hated being held, grumbling the whole time until you put her back down. As kids, if we managed to convince her to sleep on our bed or sit on our lap while watching TV, it was an absolute triumph and moment of pride. Then you'd move your leg slightly and get scratched in the face. My delightful cat meanwhile had to be stopped from constantly trying to nuzzle you!
- casselc 4y ago
  I’d second this sentiment and encourage the previous poster and some of the other replies to consider fostering for a local shelter. We started fostering early in the pandemic, a few months after losing a very special guy, and it’s been very fulfilling. You‘ll get a chance to help some cats or kittens get out of a cage for a few weeks and find new homes - and I’d be surprised if you don’t eventually find one whose home just happens to be yours.

by prawn 4y ago

lynx23 4y ago

Same here. When he was still young, my cat used to sit on my shoulder while I was trying to get computer work done. He passed away almost 2 years ago. I haven't been able to get another cat yet because I am pretty convinced he was something really special and I am unlikely to be as lucky a second time.

erulabs 4y ago

Haha that’s so sweet. I’ll just say my cat is the opposite - earning her affection is really special; anyone she chooses to love has already loved her for months. When she finally cuddles up - ah! So just like people - you’re right - you’ll never find another cat like that - but you’ll find something especially different!

Stratoscope 4y ago

You had the privilege of living with a wonderful cat. But I have to disagree on the chances. You know cats. So I think the chance of you being with another wonderful cat is very good! A lot of it is how you raise them. https://photos.app.goo.gl/YW4twLBBvu6bMrKq7 https://photos.app.goo.gl/YW4twLBBvu6bMrKq7

prawn 4y ago
Yes, I agree with that about raising them, but I think that improves the chances and well short of guarantees it. One of our first cats was very unfriendly and hated being held, grumbling the whole time until you put her back down. As kids, if we managed to convince her to sleep on our bed or sit on our lap while watching TV, it was an absolute triumph and moment of pride. Then you'd move your leg slightly and get scratched in the face. My delightful cat meanwhile had to be stopped from constantly trying to nuzzle you!
casselc 4y ago
I’d second this sentiment and encourage the previous poster and some of the other replies to consider fostering for a local shelter. We started fostering early in the pandemic, a few months after losing a very special guy, and it’s been very fulfilling. You‘ll get a chance to help some cats or kittens get out of a cage for a few weeks and find new homes - and I’d be surprised if you don’t eventually find one whose home just happens to be yours.