So you don't think it looks desparate, but you assume it looks desparate to other people? Indeed, that's not elitism. Maybe just a projection of what you fear

So you don't think it looks desparate, but you assume it looks desparate to other people? Indeed, that's not elitism. Maybe just a projection of what you fear people would think about you if you posted it? By the same logic, does someone opening a Tinder account look desparate to potential partners?