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They’re single because they’re too scared to attempt to pursue a relationship. There is no mystery here, they outline it explicitly: > The obvious course of ac
by mock-possum 4y ago
They’re single because they’re too scared to attempt to pursue a relationship. There is no mystery here, they outline it explicitly:
> The obvious course of action when you are unsure about something is experimentation. However, a relationship isn’t an activity (like a job, hobby, or sport) to try and quit when you don’t like it.
Wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong. Naïve, self-defeating. every relationship is an experiment. and if you try it and don’t like it then you can quit any time.
> Also, if it doesn’t work out, I’m scared of leaving a broken heart in another person.
Yes. That’s the real problem, fear of the unknown.
Better to love and to lose, than to live and to never have found love.
- tamrix 4y agoSee that's the problem. Either party can just quit at any time. Get a house, couple kids and a retirement fund. Then have her watch sex in the city and have girls nights out. To divorce papers, child support, demestic abuse and losing your family. Sounds great casually but let's be real here. Someone's heart will get broken eventually. Unless you're going to marry a God fearing feminine unicorn. You have to agree there's a large risk here. Once you see your father, extended family and friends go through this pain. You can admit it isn't for everyone. Loneliness is less painful. You can look at the bright side though. You as a man can do whatever you want. Focus on yourself instead. And spend all your own money.
- mock-possum 4y agoSorry but are we complaining about women doing now? Watching tv shows? Going out with their friends??