I’ve read that book and found it very helpful. As for the reasoning behind my actions, I often feel it’s not only about sex, but a deeper need to avoid confron

I’ve read that book and found it very helpful. As for the reasoning behind my actions, I often feel it’s not only about sex, but a deeper need to avoid confrontation and keep a relative peace in the relationship. In one of my last relationships, part of the problem was a constant war over my personal boundaries. My partner was requiring too much of my attention and energy, pushing things, moving fast at every turn. This eventually eroded the lines I set. This situation is something I need to keep an eye out for future relationships!