>What may be shocking to some people is that this phenomenon applies to people of any gender My point about what people don't talk about (and what those articl

>What may be shocking to some people is that this phenomenon applies to people of any gender My point about what people don't talk about (and what those articles also ignore) is that it's not just men watching porn. >Easy access to porn is part of the story, of course; in 2014, 43 percent of men said they’d watched porn in the past week. Pornography is always framed as a men's topic, but I'd argue that's a very incomplete picture of what's going on. EDIT: Maybe I'm being too euphemistic. My point is that no-one is discussing the fact that young hetero men now have to compete against pornography, and many are losing that fight. This is an enormous power shift that has largely gone undiscussed and many young men are unprepared to improve their chances, since they are ignorant to the problem itself (Parents giving out of date advice, etc.)