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This is fascinating to me - my own situation is similar, but I do not consider myself lonely. I also have the pleasure of working remotely and don't have frien
by necrosyne 3y ago
This is fascinating to me - my own situation is similar, but I do not consider myself lonely. I also have the pleasure of working remotely and don't have friends or family close by. I don't miss the awkward chaos of interpersonal social interaction in the flesh, nor do I engage in the use of social media.
I'm also employed as a software dev and assume that I must be filling my social well with banal Zoom meetings. I, too, have no specific ambitions or long-term goals beyond living as comfortably and well as possible until my meaningless little stretch of life reaches its inevitable conclusion.
- throwaway9980 3y agoEverybody needs somebody to love. It could be anybody. You just need someone to love. Seriously, are you ok? Life doesn’t have to be meaningless, but that’s up to you. You get out what you put in.
- surgical_fire 3y agoIt's nice to have somebody to love, and to be loved by somebody. But you don't really need it. And being alone is better than be in company of toxic people. A surprisingly amount of people are toxic to have around. Being alone and feeling lonely are entirely different things anyway. And life being meaningless is not really a bad thing, maybe it depends on how a person faces its meaninglessness. I happen to cherish it. I enjoy my meaningless moments.
- nuancebydefault 3y agoThis is really interesting! I think my life would be much less complicated if i had the same feeling. I always thought that most people that are most of the time alone, would be lonely. Especially because you hear a lot of old people trying to talk a lot to the people who help (cook/clean/shopping) because they tend to be lonely. So suppose one day I would loose my close friends and family, there's a chance i could be happy on my own?
- Trasmatta 3y ago> Everybody needs somebody to love. It could be anybody. You just need someone to love. Why?
- willcipriano 3y agoSong lyrics tell us so it must be true.
- nuancebydefault 3y agoMaybe just some thing to love is fulfilling. For example a hobby?
- foobarbecue 3y agoSimilar here. Mostly alone, but not lonely (thanks in part to HN?). I usually manage to hang out with someone once a week or so (mostly, they come visit me to surf with me). That feels just about right. I do worry, though, about what happens if I get sick or injured.
- nuancebydefault 3y agoIn our country, the government helps people who are sick or injured, financially and materially. I hope it is the case in your country as well.
- foobarbecue 3y agoHah, that would be nice! Unfortunately, I live in the USA. Where are you?
- nuancebydefault 3y agoBelgium aka the country that was referred to as a 'hellhole' by a former US 'president'.