Actual interest also brings a quality of attention that is hard to compete with. OTOH seek and ye will find: immerse yourself in anything and you will find it

Actual interest also brings a quality of attention that is hard to compete with. OTOH seek and ye will find: immerse yourself in anything and you will find it interesting. Taking a step back, driven people are often unhappy, the latter causing the former. Family life etc is more deeply reaarding than "success".