I find silent discos (I've only ever been to three) are actually more social because it's so easy to transition from the music to being in a crowd with a light

I find silent discos (I've only ever been to three) are actually more social because it's so easy to transition from the music to being in a crowd with a light hubbub. If you've ever had to shout in someone's ear at a club you'll appreciate how nice it is to have a fairly normal conversation, and you can tell who is/isn't willing to chat by their headphones.