So does labeling things as "unacceptable" as a means of avoiding responsibility for one's trauma/untended grief/judgments count as avoidance language? I asked s

So does labeling things as "unacceptable" as a means of avoiding responsibility for one's trauma/untended grief/judgments count as avoidance language? I asked someone yesterday if, when labeling police killing people as being "unacceptable," they meant they reject the act and judge it as unacceptable. They got very angry over being asked this question and said yes, that was the case. I'm guessing acknowledging one's own judgments and/or having them pointed out is taboo in judgmental society?