I find the obsession of ignoring how a person died shocking. Sure, let's remember the person (I never knew before). But... should we pretend he was not stabbed

I find the obsession of ignoring how a person died shocking. Sure, let's remember the person (I never knew before). But... should we pretend he was not stabbed!? What is wrong with you people? How a person died is very much relevant for that person and for the world you are living in. This reminds me of the Ian Murdock suicide. You know, a very much public person in the tech world. Whose death was very much hush hushed because... what? You're not supposed to notice an interaction with the police would unhinge a person (even more)? That he probably also had mental health problems?