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I have also tutored several people and I've found the article misses the point slightly. Some people pick things up, some don't. It is often to do with motivati
by RugnirViking 4y ago
I have also tutored several people and I've found the article misses the point slightly. Some people pick things up, some don't. It is often to do with motivation, which comes from stuff like how engaging they find the process.
I'm always highly skeptical of claims that you just need to push through and do things you hate. The people who are running in the olympics aren't the people that did the most horrid awful things they hated. They just like training! Learning to like something is difficult and can't really be forced, and it really matters who your teachers/role models are and how well you relate to them. I imagine the kind of person who is into this whole tough guy hustle grindset stuff is the kind of guy that is successful under this guy's tutelage, in a similar way to how the students that are quiet and thoughtful, unconfident and a little lazy are successful in my own experience
- noufalibrahim 4y agoI have a slightly different perspective. If every step of a journey has to be "fun" for me to make it, I'm likely to fail in every endeavour. Tolerance for discomfort and the ability to show up and do the work even when you're not fully enjoying it is a valuable personal trait regardless of what you're trying to do.