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Yeah, we hung out more...if we had people to hang out with and got along. I was from the rural edges of a metro area in the 90s. My main interests at 6 years o
by Mezzie 4y ago
Yeah, we hung out more...if we had people to hang out with and got along.
I was from the rural edges of a metro area in the 90s. My main interests at 6 years old were programming, astronomy (particularly star classification systems), video games, and child development. There were no people like me around; the internet made me more social (and more socially adept) than I otherwise would have been. My parents are socially stunted because they spent 40+ years of their lives being unable to be themselves with anyone other than their spouse, siblings, my dad's parents and their children because they were routinely mocked.
We need to be careful not to be blinded by nostalgia glasses. There were some benefits to the old way of doing things, but there were substantial drawbacks as well, particularly for those who were out of step with their local community.