My parents had a huge influence on me, because kids are impressionable. My kids are homeschooled for now (don't recommend) so having their grandparents here 24/

My parents had a huge influence on me, because kids are impressionable. My kids are homeschooled for now (don't recommend) so having their grandparents here 24/7 means the grandparents would have more time with my own kids than any other human. IME, indoctrination happens in the home more than anywhere else. Having attended public school I think the outside perspectives and opinions are the only reason I (eventually) escaped the believe-without-seeing cult, yet it took more than 15 years of being out of that house.