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What really attracts people to those places? Cuisine? Night life? Tinder opportunities?

illiarian 4y ago
That you have more shops than one. More restaurants than one. Theaters. Clubs. Sports. Connectivity. Places and activities for kids. Places for hobbies. Concerts. Other various activities and events. There are significantly more of each in a big citu.
- cudgy 4y ago
  > That you have more shops than one. More restaurants than one. Theaters. Clubs. Sports. Connectivity. Places and activities for kids. Places for hobbies. Concerts. Other various activities and events. Then open a shop, start a restaurant, start a theatre group, gather some kids for sports, organize some concerts, and become an active member of your community, instead of expecting it to be handed to you on a platter.
  - illiarian 4y ago
    So I've opened a shop. Now waht? Are you in all seriousness telling me that a small town can provide the same amount of things as a big city? You'll run out of people long before you get on par with what a big city offers.
    - cudgy 4y ago
      Maybe you missed the whole discussion which was stemmed from complaints about big cities and the frustration many people are finding with being able to save any money, purchase or rent a suitable home, live in a safe neighborhood, avoid long commutes, or raise a family. Life is more than just buying lots of stuff and experiences from other people in big cities. Giving back to your community and allowing them to enjoy your talents should enter the equation too. Don’t always be a taker.
CalRobert 4y ago
I want my kids to be around a variety of perspectives. The groupthink and pressure to conform in rural areas and small towns can be extreme.
- nec4b 4y ago
  Bigger cities are the same. Politically they are very homogeneous. If you want want you kids to be near variety of perspectives, you should move to a smaller city or near one.
  - CalRobert 4y ago
    That hasn't been my experience. Maybe I'm just tired of being around people who feel the existence of cities is a personal affront.
    - nec4b 4y ago
      My conclusion comes from statistics and logic. In smaller cities the population is a mix a between daily rural migrants, factory workers and office/service workers. In big cities the population is mostly office/service workers. >>Maybe I'm just tired of being around people who feel the existence of cities is a personal affront. It's a bit ironic mentioning that here, because there is a pro urbanization (anti rural, anti suburbs) article on the front page of HN almost every week. And every dominant media in the country promotes the same narrative.
- PedroBatista 4y ago
  Funnily enough the most narrow minded self-centered provincial people I know are in big cities.
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That you have more shops than one. More restaurants than one. Theaters. Clubs. Sports. Connectivity. Places and activities for kids. Places for hobbies. Concerts. Other various activities and events. There are significantly more of each in a big citu.

cudgy 4y ago
> That you have more shops than one. More restaurants than one. Theaters. Clubs. Sports. Connectivity. Places and activities for kids. Places for hobbies. Concerts. Other various activities and events. Then open a shop, start a restaurant, start a theatre group, gather some kids for sports, organize some concerts, and become an active member of your community, instead of expecting it to be handed to you on a platter.
- illiarian 4y ago
  So I've opened a shop. Now waht? Are you in all seriousness telling me that a small town can provide the same amount of things as a big city? You'll run out of people long before you get on par with what a big city offers.
  - cudgy 4y ago
    Maybe you missed the whole discussion which was stemmed from complaints about big cities and the frustration many people are finding with being able to save any money, purchase or rent a suitable home, live in a safe neighborhood, avoid long commutes, or raise a family. Life is more than just buying lots of stuff and experiences from other people in big cities. Giving back to your community and allowing them to enjoy your talents should enter the equation too. Don’t always be a taker.

CalRobert 4y ago

I want my kids to be around a variety of perspectives. The groupthink and pressure to conform in rural areas and small towns can be extreme.

nec4b 4y ago
Bigger cities are the same. Politically they are very homogeneous. If you want want you kids to be near variety of perspectives, you should move to a smaller city or near one.
- CalRobert 4y ago
  That hasn't been my experience. Maybe I'm just tired of being around people who feel the existence of cities is a personal affront.
  - nec4b 4y ago
    My conclusion comes from statistics and logic. In smaller cities the population is a mix a between daily rural migrants, factory workers and office/service workers. In big cities the population is mostly office/service workers. >>Maybe I'm just tired of being around people who feel the existence of cities is a personal affront. It's a bit ironic mentioning that here, because there is a pro urbanization (anti rural, anti suburbs) article on the front page of HN almost every week. And every dominant media in the country promotes the same narrative.
PedroBatista 4y ago
Funnily enough the most narrow minded self-centered provincial people I know are in big cities.

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