> And in a romantic relationship or a marriage that means that men e.g. should not automatically assume that the women will organize the household while they ch

> And in a romantic relationship or a marriage that means that men e.g. should not automatically assume that the women will organize the household while they chill out. Historically men didn't "chill out". Most men had gruelling menial exhausting jobs - agricultural work that was simply too physically demanding for most women to do. The idea that men had an easy life while women did all the struggle is a fever dream.