People in general are more accepting than you might suppose. If the criteria that matter most to you involve your identity as a member of a putatively rare and

People in general are more accepting than you might suppose. If the criteria that matter most to you involve your identity as a member of a putatively rare and privileged group based on gender identity and religion -- as opposed, say, to being open-minded, curious, friendly, and neighborly -- then you will likely already know where you should live, around others who share precisely those values. Otherwise, many adventures await. Personally, having lived in a rural setting in the peace corps for three years, where everyone around me thought, dressed, ate, and behaved in ways surprisingly different, transformed how I see others. It's the quality of a person's "soul" (define it as you will), that matters, not tribal allegiance.