The first time I went through this, in the end it's possible that the only thing that mattered was my partner being several months pregnant at the time of her i

The first time I went through this, in the end it's possible that the only thing that mattered was my partner being several months pregnant at the time of her interview. The second time, I wrote a photo-story instead of just packing in a pile of 4x6 prints. "Here's us dating, here's us married, we took this trip here, this other trip there, here's my partner and her child with my parents and one of my siblings, here's me meeting her parents, here's our wedding, here's me and the kid, here's all of us at various events, here's us celebrating an anniversary," etc.