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An odd article, because it puts up a whole smorgasbord of strawmen. It seems to conflate all of it into one big old-man-yells-at-clouds complaint: tiktok and s
by larve 4y ago
An odd article, because it puts up a whole smorgasbord of strawmen.
It seems to conflate all of it into one big old-man-yells-at-clouds complaint: tiktok and social media addiction, chatgpt, stimulants, depression, teenagers, helicopter parenting, porn, videogames, sensory overload, being called a snowflake, stuffed animals (?) and on and on it goes. But it never actually brings anything concrete to the table, nor maybe examines how the world teenagers grow up in today might not be the world where the author grew up in 40 years ago.
For example, in that very first screenshot, the first two teenagers say they feel more connected to their friends and social online, while the latter two saying they feel more peaceful. How is that for connecting with yourself and others? It's not like the authors seems to have spent a lot of time talking to these kids to maybe form a better informed opinion. Instead, their writing veers off into nytimes op-eds and big words about the fundamental task of our lives (fundamental to who?) and throw-away culture. I don't think we inhabit the same internet. Mine is full of dedicated artists and researchers and hackers and students and youtube creators (hide the kids!) creating amazing videos. Heck, just spend one day on HN and click all the obscure stuff showing up on the frontpage.
As an autistic person, online was indeed where things where calm, peaceful, and where I could be social at my own rhythm. It's only later in life that I figured out that that's where I am grounded, that's where I can grow, instead of pretending to connect in the real world.
It's one thing to criticize a specific aspect of digital culture, and maybe come up with some facts; it's another to just put everything in a blender and pretend there is wisdom in calling it terrible.
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- rablackburn 4y ago> It's one thing to criticize a specific aspect of digital culture, and maybe come up with some facts; it's another to just put everything in a blender and pretend there is wisdom in calling it terrible. May I ask why not? Why does the critique have to be a specific aspect? How specific does one have to be before it’s “wisdom”? The author appears to be trying to articulate a common pattern across behaviours that our culture and technology enable at the moment. To reflect on how our behaviour and lifestyle has changed drastically and its hard to see the big changes because they happen so slowly. That some people are thriving is obvious (to you), but many obviously aren’t (to the author). One group’s experience doesn’t mean the other’s doesn’t exist.
- larve 4y agoI'm not armed for a philosophical battle, but the author seems to have a certain pretension to know what a good life is, and how others aren't living it. Yet the picture he paints I would very much question exists. I'd have a very different take on the article if the author told their own story of (tiktok + adderall + chatgpt + porn + stuffed animals + calling people snowflakes) and how it was not a good life and turned it around, and would definitely see the wisdom in that. Just enumerating what somehow triggers you and turning it into a tirade about how others should their life, not something I consider very wise. Obviously it will still resonate with individuals who struggle (as seen in the comments), but it will also further cement the grumpy old grandpa "kids these days suck" attitude (as seen in the comments too).