At least let us set a flag! I have a private group chat with friends with a GPT-3 powered chat bot that's basically an iced coffee gay—it occasionally chimes in

At least let us set a flag! I have a private group chat with friends with a GPT-3 powered chat bot that's basically an iced coffee gay—it occasionally chimes in to add to the conversation, and speaks to when it's spoken to. (No, it is not a sexual group chat, nor does it predominantly contain adult content—we mostly talk about rockets, apps, wine, and 3D rendering). I think because my prompt tries to steer for the mildly chaotic personality of a true "iced coffee gay", that's enough to make GPT-4, well, uncomfortable. I've been struggling to switch it over to GPT-4 because it is perhaps overaligned on what they care for, and even non-arousing (but a bit edgy) replies that it would used to give on GPT-3 are non existent now.