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Why are unrealistic preferences a problem for anyone but the person with the unrealistic preferences? The only way someone else’s standards become a problem fo
by jjj123 4y ago
Why are unrealistic preferences a problem for anyone but the person with the unrealistic preferences?
The only way someone else’s standards become a problem for you is when you feel entitled to that person’s attraction (“I’m a 7 and she’s a 6, therefore she should give me a chance. But she only talks to 9s, the nerve!”). But you’re not actually entitled to anyone’s attraction, so that’s on you, not on them.
- midoridensha 4y ago>Why are unrealistic preferences a problem for anyone but the person with the unrealistic preferences? Did you read my 2nd paragraph? >The only way someone else’s standards become a problem for you For me personally, that's right. For society as a whole, suppose that everyone suddenly decided they would only date model-beautiful people. Pretty soon, everyone is terminally single, no one forms families or has children, and society dies out within a couple of generations (unless a different way of raising children is found, such as keeping them all in government-run institutions, but this still entails a radical change to society).