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When you're at the buffet, disapproval and pickiness is cheap and easy.
by barrysteve 4y ago
When you're at the buffet, disapproval and pickiness is cheap and easy.
- EarthLaunch 4y agoContrasting online dating with my imagination of "village dating": In a setting with a small selection, I find I naturally look for qualities - things I like about someone I'm around. If someone has a couple of nice qualities, that's enough to enjoy their company. In a setting with a large selection, I try to narrow the difficulty of the choice by looking for disqualifiers - things I don't like about people. I wonder how this relates to happiness.